Top Men Taylor Swift Has Dated

Taylor Swift’s dating history has often overlapped with her career milestones, from early teen romances to long term relationships in the spotlight. Many of these relationships included public appearances, music collaborations, or moments that drew heavy media attention. The timeline stretches from her breakout years in the late 2000s to high profile partners in the 2020s. Here is a clear look at the most notable men she has dated and the context around each relationship.

Joe Jonas

Swift and Joe Jonas dated in 2008 during the early phases of their careers. They met while both were topping charts and appearing at the same award shows. The breakup became widely discussed after Swift mentioned a brief phone call in interviews. Years later they were seen on friendly terms at events, showing the situation had cooled.

Taylor Lautner

Swift and Taylor Lautner connected in 2009 after meeting on set for a project where they played classmates. They were photographed at sporting events and dinners that fall. The relationship was short but very public due to both being teen favorites at the time. In later years they appeared friendly during reunions tied to their shared project.

John Mayer

Swift and John Mayer were linked from late 2009 into 2010. They performed together on stage and interacted on social media during that period. The relationship drew interest because of their age difference and shared industry circles. After they split, both continued to perform at the same festivals and award shows without incident.

Jake Gyllenhaal

Swift and Jake Gyllenhaal dated in 2010 with sightings in New York and Nashville. They spent time together around the holidays, which raised attention from paparazzi. The relationship ended after a few months but remained a frequent topic in entertainment coverage. Both kept details private and moved on to other projects quickly.

Harry Styles

Swift and Harry Styles dated from late 2012 into early 2013. They were photographed in New York City and on a holiday trip that drew wide coverage. Both artists performed at major events soon after the breakup, often fielding questions about each other. Over time they remained cordial when crossing paths at industry shows.

Calvin Harris

Swift and Calvin Harris dated from 2015 to 2016. They shared photos from vacations and attended award ceremonies together. The two collaborated behind the scenes on music during the relationship, which later became public knowledge. They split in 2016 and issued statements indicating mutual respect.

Tom Hiddleston

Swift and Tom Hiddleston dated in 2016 following her breakup with Harris. They were photographed in several countries that summer, including appearances with family members. The relationship moved quickly and drew intense media scrutiny. It ended within months as both returned to busy work schedules.

Joe Alwyn

Swift and Joe Alwyn were together from 2016 to 2023. They kept the relationship private, rarely appearing on red carpets as a couple. Alwyn contributed under a pseudonym to songwriting on multiple Swift albums. Reports of their breakup surfaced in 2023 while Swift was preparing for a major tour.

Matty Healy

Swift and Matty Healy were linked in spring 2023. He attended several of her concerts and was seen with her friends in New York. Neither gave extensive public comments about the relationship. The connection faded by early summer as each focused on musical commitments.

Travis Kelce

Swift and Travis Kelce began dating in 2023 after he mentioned attending her tour. She appeared at multiple NFL games that season, which brought new crossover attention to football broadcasts. Kelce later traveled to international tour stops during her schedule. They have continued to be seen together at events in 2024 and 2025.

Lucas Till

Swift and Lucas Till dated briefly in 2009 after meeting while filming one of her music videos. They spent time together during promotion for their projects that year. The relationship was short but friendly, with both speaking positively about each other afterward. Each moved on quickly to roles and releases that expanded their careers.

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